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Joy's avatar

I’m sorry for dumping in your comments😭🫠but reading the line about restless babies when parents are absent reminds me of how heartbroken I feel every time I see/hear someone tell parents to not hold their crying babies every time to avoid “spoiling” them. I get that sometimes it’s a lot on the parents, I can’t imagine how hard navigating that new phase is but there’s just something about crying babies being left alone that my heart can’t handle.

Uchechukwu Keke's avatar

Pleaseeeeee dump in my comments as much as you want 😂 it is very welcome here

Sometimes, it feels cruel because why would you do that and unknown to them (the parents), they shape children who are uncomfortable being vulnerable because they fear being neglected or worse even rejected.

Most times, I think it's a society problem and I pray that we do better honestly

Joy's avatar

I love this🤍and it definitely is strange that I know so much about something that I’ve never experienced (atleast not the romantic aspect; I am surrounded by other forms of love)…I just know that when I do, it will be a beautiful thing but until then(and beyond), my Lover’s love is enough for me🤍

Uchechukwu Keke's avatar

As it should be darling, He's is the love that is most unconditional and most constant throughout our lives. Love in itself is a thing that curiosity makes us know so much about. I don't know if you get...

Joy's avatar

I get I get. And I think I have also lived it through others. Listening to them talking about it, watching them live it and how they look at each other.

Uchechukwu Keke's avatar

Yessss, that's it 🥹